Sunday, August 26, 2012

Erika's Presence


Dearest friends,

Erika's presence was certainly felt while we celebrated her life:

There were some who came a day or two previous and left flowers, a rosary and a balloon. Those flowers fed the local deer population. Left behind and uneaten was an anonymous letter to Erika.

It was a cloudy day when we arrived, but the sun soon broke through and it turned into clear blue skies by the time we left.

An unknown person (to us) who knew Erika when he was 10 years old, a little brother of one of Erika's good friends, came to pay his respects while we were there. He joined in our celebration.

We shouldn't forget about Edward Romero, who passed just two days later.

A ladybug landed on Marcela's lap.

Erika and Dad loved to watch Pee-Wee's Playhouse on Saturday mornings and read the funny papers on Sunday mornings.

There was a discussion about flickering lights.

Erika loved hoop earrings.

A funny story was told about new earrings and Erika's dog.

Old engravings in the tree are faded from time but still there.

We laughed more than we cried.

Old friends re-connected and new friendships were made.

Today was a good day.


Fred Harmon
08.25.12
Rev. 08.26.12




Saturday, August 25, 2012

Link to Facebook group

Here is a clickable link to the Facebook Group of the same name.  Friends and family, please feel free to join the group and share your memories and / or photos of Erika.

http://www.facebook.com/groups/364154923652780/
Fred Tiberius Harmon

20 Years Ago Today

Dearest friends,

20 years ago today we lost someone special. To some, she was beloved family. To others, she was a cherished friend. As for me, I didn't get to know her for very long, but she was the right person for me to meet at the right time, and I feel like I owe her a lot for her friendship.

Marcela, Curtis and I shared some time together reminiscing about Erika. Since my set of memories has nearly been washed away with time, I mostly listened as they told me stories about particular photographs of Erika, how she was sweet, free spirited and very loving yet with a firey personality. When she came home, everyone knew. I commented that I remembered her unique voice and yet I can’t seem to describe it. I showed Marcela pictures of my family, and was surprised to find out that Erika was a 10-pound, 10-month baby! She was also a baby who learned to walk before she really knew how to crawl! I found out that she was a transfer in from another high school (Kennedy) when I met her. I guess that in a way she was just as new as I was and yet making friends came to her so naturally. Marcela told me that if Erika liked you, she nurtured you. If she didn’t, then watch out! I’m glad in Erika’s eyes, I was categorized in the former.

Marcela loved taking pictures of Erika and I could see that in the great photographs that she took. Shared with me, and now with her permission, shared with you is one of Marcela’s favorite pictures of Erika: a moment captured while she was doing homework. A simple moment. A beautiful moment.

Warmest regards,
Fred Harmon
08.25.12

Erika poses for a photo in the family room.


Erika on the phone

Father Curtis Griffin and Daughter Erika before a Father / Daughter dance.

Father Curtis Griffin and Daughter Erika before a Father / Daughter dance.

Erika sketch